Table of Contents

• Introduction
• Chapter One
  • The Foundations Of A Happy Marriage
  • A Sound Choice
  • Religion Should Be The Primary Factor When One Chooses A Spouse
  • Shared Duties
  • It Is Compulsory For A Woman To Serve Her Husband
  • It Is Compulsory For A Woman To Obey Her Husband
  • He Is Nothing More Than Your Paradise And Your Hell-fire
  • To Obey One’s Husband Is Like Performing Jihad
  • It Is Recommended For A Man To Help His Wife In Household
  • Related Work And Chores
  • Kindness And Patience In Dealing With One’s Wife
  • Overlooking At Least Some Of A Woman’s Faults
  • Whenever A Man Desires Sexual Relations, His Wife Must Not Refuse Him
  • Without Due Cause, A Man Should Not Break Off Ties From His Wife; And He Must Not Be Negligent
  • In Satisfying Her Sexual Needs.
  • When Is It Permissible For A Man To Stay Away From His Wife’s Bed?
  • A Woman Must Take Part In The Preliminaries Of Sexual Relations
  • When She Has To Choose Between Voluntary Acts Of Worship And Her Husband’s Needs, A Woman Should Give Precedence To The Latter
  • A Woman Must Not Describe The Beauty Of Another Woman To Her Husband
  • It Is Forbidden, Upon Both Husband And Wife, To Divulge Their Intimate Bedroom Secrets To A Third Party
  • Cleanliness And Adornment
  • Moderation Is Required tricking One’s Wife: To What Degree Is Doing So Permissible Or Disliked
  • The Best Job For A Woman
  • How A Woman Should Treat Her In-Laws
  • Choose Righteous Friends And Stay Away From
  • Evil Companions
  • To Bring A Female Servant Into One’s Home Is A Dangerous

• Chapter One (Continued)
  • Proposition Indeed!
  • Don’t Undress Outside Of The Home
  • Don’t Delve Into Your Husband’s Past
  • Avoid Arousing The Suspicion Of Others
  • The Importance Of Prudent Spending On The Part
    Of Husband And Wife
  • Justice Between Wives
  • Lawful Games And Entertainment
• Chapter Two
  • Some Of The Causes Of Marital Discord
  • Al-Ghairah
  • Jealousy And False Suspicion Lead To Marital Discord, And Perhaps Even To The Dissolution Of A Marriage
  •  A Mans Ghairah
  • The Evils Of The Tongue
  • The Satellite Dish, Playing Cards, And Other Frivolous Diversions
  • Harshness And Rough Treatment Of One’s Wife
  •  Deviation From The Purposes Of Marriage
  • Miserliness And Greed
  • The Nature Of A Man Or Woman’s Work
  • When A Husband Meddles In His Wife’s Business
  • Procreation
  • Other Causes Of Marital Discord
• Chapter Three
  • How To Resolve Disagreements Between Spouses
  • The Incident That Prompted The Revealing Of These Verses
  • A Brief Digression
  •  Mans Right To Lead And To Discipline
  • The Ideal Woman’s Approach To Resolving Marital Disagreements
  • An Example And A Potent Cure
  • Five Killer Mistakes That Husbands And Wives Commit During An Argument Or A Dispute
    • 1. Hiding One’s Intentions And Feelings
    • 2. Inviting Others To Take Part In The Dispute
    • 3. Rushing To The Courthouse
    • 4. Destroying The Other Persons Confidence And Sense Of Self-Dignity
    • 5. Fighting In Front Of The Children
  •  Conclusion